How many people know about it? When you get married, you are signing part of yourself over to somebody. One of our friends will act as the celebrant. Will you have a wedding? Do you have it planned? The color scheme is black and purple, and we are both going to wear Converse tennis shoes. The tables will have bouquets of trees without leaves to represent our marriage, which will be like a growing tree.
My dress will be black. How do you manage to hide it from your mom? Is it difficult to keep it a secret? We recently got tattoos together. What father and daughter do you know who have names for each other and tattoos like that? What if someone calls the cops? What about your sister? I get the sense she knows. When we were younger and I was sad she would crawl down from her bunk into my bed and comfort me. So would you have kids together, or would you adopt?
Will you tell your kids that their father is your dad, and their grandfather? Would you feel comfortable keeping such a big secret? His mom and dad will want to spend time with the grandkids, so we will have to decide how everyone will be known.
Do you worry about the potential genetic problems associated with having kids with your biological father? Incest has been around as long as humans have. Everybody just needs to deal with it as long as nobody is getting hurt or getting pressured or forced.
There are so many people having kids who will be passing on health problems, people with diabetes or mental health issues, or AIDS. My mom was allowed to have kids and both her and her mom were bipolar. My research tells me that the only real genetic risk is high blood pressure, which is controllable. I think people only worry about it because they look to the genetic problems that occurred when incest was happening generation upon generation.
Is the father-daughter dynamic part of your sex life? Last time it happened, we both stood up and stopped doing what we were doing. It caught us off guard. That was so long ago. I never experienced them as a couple.
I just feel so close to him and so in love with him. I took him to prom. Do you ever call him Dad? Do you ever think about what would happen if you broke up? That was one of my stepfathers. Is the large age gap an issue? What do you like most about him? I can go to him with anything and he will listen to me and give me good advice.
He helps me fix problems. Right from the start we were comfortable being so open and close because we are so similar. What sorts of things do you have in common? We both like being outdoors and we are interested in artistic things like photography and painting.
We both have an extreme love for animals — we have five dogs and we like the countryside and equine activities. He was in FFA when he was in high school and so was I.
Our favorite food is chicken, our second favorite is fish. We both like computers and video games. We both want a big family. Tell me, did you type this on paid time or your own time? This site is a free service for communication, self-expression and freedom of speech. We believe this site increases the availability of information, encourages healthy debate, and connects viewers.
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It irritates me that if I eat what I want to eat, it shows. Yes, my face has wrinkles. Now what I want most is laughs. I just want to laugh. There is nothing else. But then you realize that life is too much fun to do that. So you just have to find a way of negotiating getting old psychologically and physically. I love being older. But once I got over that, 60 was great. Seventy was great.
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